Erica Mena has had quite the dating history, making for absolutely wonderful reality Television. From going back and forth to females and men, nobody can even keep track of who is knocking boots with the video vixen turned VH1 reality TV star. In a recent interview with Rolling Out, Erica Mena spoke out about her transition from being in a super serious (or so we thought) and public relationship with Cyn Santana to now currently being engaged to Bow Wow.
Mena claims she was “never a lesbian” per say, but more so just a bi-sexual woman who enjoyed dating women and men equally. She explains that, “People have misconceptions about everyone I’ve dated. Last year, it’s like ‘oh, all of sudden, she’s gay.’ No, I’ve been bisexual. In the past, I’ve been very open and affectionate towards females. It’s definitely no secret. At that point, I was dating a woman and brought her on the show.”
Erica also touches on people dubbing her marriage as a publicity stunt. “I think people are trying to put pieces together in other people’s lives so much that they are not living their own life,” Mena says. “Cyn and I have been broken up for a while, I just hadn’t publicly come out about it because I’m on reality television. So to keep you tuned in, I had to keep things under wraps. So in this season of “Love & Hip Hop,” there’s a lot of catching up for the fans to do. And I think they will see how everything transpired and will get a better understanding.”
When asked about her sexuality, Erica Mena reveals how Bow Wow is the “dominant one in bed” and that’s why she’s so open with him. “Being with Bow [Wow], he’s so dominating and that just turns me on because I’m usually the dominating one. I’m a Scorpio, so I call the shots. It’s different to have someone that you can finally be submissive to. So dealing with a woman like me, it’s kind of like, ‘can she be tamed?’ It’s all a matter of, are you man enough to tame the woman.”
WELP FOLKS, there you have it.
Source: Rolling Out