Self-confidence is always an attractive quality to the opposite sex. Women feel more comfortable around self-assured men. On an instinctual level, they want a mate who is strong and will be able to defend and take care of her. You project this ability with having high self-confidence.  Read more after the jump!

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Self-Confidence is a trait that can be learned and cultivated. Most people are not naturally self-confident. They had to learn how to do so through life experience. They have basically learned how to excise negative thoughts and become the best person they were meant to be.

No one wants to be around someone who is negative and self-defeating.  How does a guy that isn’t great looking end up with a 10?  Self-Confidence and personality strength.  A man who exudes self-confidence rubs off on those around him and is someone people want to be around.

It’s key to be open and relaxed with women.  You have to be in control of your world.   This means that you are relaxed, not fidgeting, using strong body language and having fun.

This is one of those things where you can “fake it ‘til you make it.” Even if you don’t have much self-confidence, pretend that you do and act like you do. Your actions will eventually meld into your personality and just become what you are.

Simple example: If you’re feeling depressed, stand up tall, slap the goofiest grin on your face you can possibly muster, pull your shoulders back, stick your chest out and then try to still feel depressed.  It will be a lot harder because your body is no longer in a depressed state.

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