
When you meet a girl, you might devise a plan to catch her eye. While acting out the plan you hatch, keep in mind that before you get too far into a conversation with her, she’s likely to have already sized you up to determine if you’re worth her time. There are SEVERAL things that TURN GIRLS OFF ALMOST IMMEDIATELY like being rude or lying. Find out what triggers a turn-off after the jump!
Poor Attitude
Whether you’re mistaking cockiness for confidence or just being outright rude, whoever told you girls like guys with bad attitudes told you wrong! There’s a difference between playing hard to get and being a cock! If you know you’re just putting on a show to seem like you’re cool, ditch the acting and be yourself! Not every girl requires a guy to open doors and cover rain puddles with his coat, but CHIVALRY IS NOT DEAD! Consider how your bad attitude may be spewing out bad vibes for the girl you have your eye on.
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Poor Grooming
There’s a reason why a first impression means everything. If you look like you’ve just finished wrestling with a sewer rat, she’s not going to give you a second glance—at least, not in a good way. You don’t have to have a standing appointment to get pedicures and full body waxes to keep her interest, but a decent haircut and a clean shirt will surely help. Even if you’re going for a rugged look, there is such a thing as too far gone.
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Lack of Attention
It’s human nature to crave attention, so when you treat her as if she’s barely existent in your life, it’s quite a turn-off. Don’t resort to playing so much cat and mouse that you let her slip right through the cracks. If you are interested in her, show it! The more attention you give her and the deeper you dig into getting to know her, the more likely that she will share mutual feelings with you.
Promiscuity
If you’re using your charm and pretty face to work your way into every woman’s arms, you’re going to lose many a battle. Being a player or acting promiscuously is not only unattractive, but for many women, it is a deal-breaker. Don’t lie or connive your way into getting what you want. If you simply like to date a few girls at a time, make your methods CLEAR SO EVERYONE’S ON THE SAME PAGE!
Hope that was helpful!
