Chris Writes:
Dear #IFWT I’m tryna bag this chick and I don’t want to come off too strong. We work together and I think I might violate work rules if I push up too strong. But she is BAD! I think she might be feeling me too so how can I approach the situation?
Romance in the workplace is as common as romance in the club. It’s only natural that if you are around someone for extended amounts of time, that you become attracted to them. But you are fully aware of the consequences that come along with this territory. Let’s weigh your options, shall we. You could lay low and get her to approach you. This way you’re sure the feeling is mutual. Waiting for that signal from her would rid you of that possible workplace harassment charge LOL. Or you could somehow approach her outside of work. Maybe if you guys are FB friends or twitter friends you could subtly express your interest there. The thing to remember is this: Perhaps you two get together and hit it off. Say you two become an item and it becomes office knowledge that you two are together. Now say you two have a bad break-up. Now you’re both left with that lingering awkwardness and so are your co-workers! These are all things you want to consider when deciding to date within the office. There are salaries on the line here. Glad you wrote in because this isn’t something to take lightly! GOOD LUCK!!
